A romantic weekend near Rome does not have to mean a hotel with a buffet and fake candles. One hour from the city, the Tuscia countryside offers what couples are actually looking for: silence, film-set villages, thermal water under the stars and a place entirely your own. Here are five concrete ideas — tested on our guests — for two days you will remember.

1. A cottage of your own (not a room)

The difference between an ordinary weekend and a true escape is where you stay. The Lovers' Cottage at Villa Vacanze Valentina exists precisely for this: a wooden hideaway for two only, with a reserved garden, whirlpool bath, outdoor poolside shower and breakfast served in the garden. In the evening the lanterns light up among the trees — and there is nobody else, just the two of you.

2. The thermal bath at night

At the Popes' Thermal Baths of Viterbo, every Saturday, the monumental pool stays open from 9 pm to 1 am: sulphurous water at 40 degrees steaming into the cool air, low lights, the sky above. It is the "bath under the stars", and for a couple it is probably the most romantic experience in the whole of Lazio. Even more so in winter, when the steam wraps everything.

3. Civita di Bagnoregio at sunset

Arrive at Civita in the late afternoon, when the tour groups leave and the light turns golden: crossing the suspended bridge towards "the dying town" hand in hand, with the badlands glowing, is a scene no restaurant with a view can match. Then stay for dinner in a village osteria: pici with truffle and a Tuscia red.

4. The villages loop (with a twist)

On Sunday morning, a circuit that is pure cinema: the Sacred Wood of Bomarzo at opening time, when the wood of wonders is still yours; then Celleno, the ghost village, romantic in the most literary sense; and Vitorchiano, the town suspended over its precipice. Three completely different atmospheres in half a day.

5. The lake, if it is summer

From June to September add Lake Bolsena: a sunset boat tour with aperitivo on board, a lake-fish dinner in Marta or Capodimonte, and the drive home with the windows down through fragrant countryside. The seaside can wait.

The perfect programme, in practice

Saturday: arrive at the cottage in the early afternoon, pool or whirlpool time, sunset at Civita, dinner in the villages, thermal bath from 9 pm. Sunday: breakfast in the garden, Bomarzo at opening, lunch in Vitorchiano, one last hour by the pool before leaving. Total distance from Rome: barely an hour on the A1, with the Orte exit 15 minutes from the villa. It is the best romance-per-kilometre ratio you can get without boarding a plane.

There is only one Lovers' Cottage — and weekends go fast: if you have a date in mind, check availability early.